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Why I choose Airbnb as a Mom

Hotel Selfie in Asheville, NC – 2018

Before I had kids I was told all the time to travel I wouldn’t he able to do it as much once kids came along. But honestly, thats just not how I was raised. While I haven’t mustered up the courage to fly with the girls yet, we have still found ways to travel ever since our oldest was around 8 months old or so. They might be in a closer radius, we have not gone much further than 8hr road trip yet, but we still get around and Airbnb has made it that much easier for us to have a good time as a family.

I didn’t really use Airbnbs very much back then, and would get a hotel room but would sometimes feel stressed, especially at night with a baby. I mean let’s be honest not everyone is like us, a family with a baby that can/will cry at night. Some people are there to relax and that’s not easy when it’s 2 am and you have a screaming baby in the room next door(was usually the norm for us on the first night, thankfully has gotten better as girls got older). I usually would try to book a family-friendly venue since I’d hope that would involve more families with kids. I mean don’t get me wrong I’m not really someone who strives to make everyone happy but I try to give people the understanding I would like to receive myself. I recognize that what I’m ok with is not everyone’s cup of tea.

Ciui Family Reunion Cabin in Gatlinburg, TN 2021

So, after going on a couple group vacations with extended family where we used Airbnb or Vrbo we quickly realized the benefits.

Don’t get me wrong, there are pros and cons to everything. If you’re looking for a relaxing vacation where you don’t have to do any cooking or cleaning for yourself then this might not be your first choice. But if you’re like us and you enjoy your privacy and letting your kids be kids, well then…

Another time, another cabin in Gatlinburg, TN

And there are ways to make your trip easier too, plan easy quick meals or prep before your trip for less work or even get takeout if that’s your thing. Cleanup duty is done as a family and rather than figuring out a way to repack I’ll either put all the dirty clothes in one bag and the clean in the other or pack a trash bag to throw dirty clothes in, so much easier than trying to repack everything. It’s also important to be aware of what amenities are already provided, that way you avoid bringing things you don’t need.

Enjoying the view at Okie Dokies Smokehouse in Ashville, NC 2018 – The best jalapeno hushpuppies!

So, to summarize, it’s private, you have the amenities of home (sometimes even nicer than what you have at home), and you get to let your kids be kids and not worry about other people. I mean don’t get me wrong my girls don’t run around screaming at the tops of the lungs(often), but I still don’t want to have to constantly shush them for being a little too loud just because we are conscious of the fact that there are other people or families in rooms above, next door, and/or below. I love that they can run and jump when they have the opportunity to and at the end of the day when they just konk out from pure exhaustion I know that they had fun too.

Two very sleepy babies

Everyday we make deposits in the memory banks of our children.

Charles R. Swindoll
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Leaving Key West

Honestly, we have been back home since Saturday. But I’ve been putting off writing this entry because, well it makes me a little sad. It was so blissful and peaceful while we were there. Not a care. No stress. No work. Just me and my husband. It’s still me and my husband but we are back at work. Back to reality. But like many things, there is a silver lining to being back. A sort of ‘look at the bright side’ moment. Now that we are married and together. It seems as if the day-to-day stress we used to have isn’t so bad. Because now we go home to each other. We also get more sleep since we go to sleep together/earlier because we aren’t talking to each other on the phone into the wee hours of the night, ha ha.

But there are other benefits to us finally being home and together. Now we get to plan future adventures together. It’s quite exciting.

So in a last adieu to Key West(one day we might go back) here are a few pictures we snapped on the road home. We stopped by a couple of parks on the way home and sometimes just pulled over.

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Key West… Day 4

I’m sad to say, today was our last full day on the island. :( We had a lot of fun here, despite Josh having his cold. And I’m sure we will return to spend more time here and actually see the sights haha. We stopped by the Southernmost point but the lines were so long we didn’t grab a picture. It’s truly a beautiful place, worth the drive and time. It was a choice we will never regret making and was perfect. We didn’t stop by many of the different sights you can take in while here but we did go to the butterfly observatory today. I always enjoy these types of places and I have to admit this was one of the best ones I have ever been too. We took a lot of selfies this time around mainly to get some pictures of the both of us. Many of these pictures are with the GoPro because I do not have a wide angle lens that will capture our surrounding area as well. But I’m not disappointed with the results.

Oh yeah. Since it is our last full day here we decided to be dorks and wear.

Matching…

Hubby & Wifey T-shirts!

We are a goofy couple and we own up to it. And as you can see the back have our #CiuiEverAfter hashtag (pictures on Instagram from Wedding and beyond)

For the rest of the day it was a mixture of things. Walking around. Lounging by the pool (for Josh) or swimming in the pool (for me). I can honestly say I’m going to miss this place. But alas we must return to real life soon and this chapter must end so that the real adventure can begin. I’ll keep you posted world.